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G.J.N v M.C (34350/2020) [2025] ZAGPPHC 329 (24 March 2025)
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## G.J.N v M.C (34350/2020) [2025] ZAGPPHC 329 (24 March 2025)
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FAMILY – Children –
Expert
investigation
–
Shared
residency arrangement broke down due to parties' inability to
co-parent effectively – Allegations of parental
alienation –
Assessment of children's relationships with both parents and their
new partners – Evaluation of
emotional impact of family
dynamics – Investigation necessary to make an informed
determination on primary residency
and related issues –
Request for a forensic investigation warranted and granted –
Expert appointed.
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# IN THE HIGH COURT OF
SOUTH AFRICA
IN THE HIGH COURT OF
SOUTH AFRICA
# (GAUTENG DIVISION,
PRETORIA)
(GAUTENG DIVISION,
PRETORIA)
Case No:
34350/2020
(1)
REPORTABLE:
no
(2)
OF INTEREST TO OTHER JUDGES: no
(3)
REVISED: yes
24 March 2024
In the application of:
# G[...] J[...]
N[...]
Applicant
G[...] J[...]
N[...]
Applicant
(Identity No. 8[…])
and
M[...]
C[...]
Respondent
(Identity No. 8[…])
This judgment is
prepared and authored by the Judge whose name is reflected as such
and is handed down electronically by circulation
to the parties /
their legal representatives by email and by uploading it to the
electronic file of this matter on CaseLines. The
date for handing
down is deemed to be 24 March 2025.
# JUDGMENT
JUDGMENT
RETIEF J
INTRODUCTION
[1]
On the 18 February 2021 the applicant and
respondent obtained a decree of divorced which incorporated a
settlement agreement [order].
The settlement, agreement
inter
alia
, dealt with the primary residence,
contact and care of their two minor children, G[...] J[...] N[...]
and P[...] N[...] [children],
as envisaged in terms of section 18 of
the Children’s Act, 38 of 2005 [Children’s Act]. The
order was granted absent
the settlement agreement being endorsed by
the office of the family advocate. The family advocate, at the time,
was not inclined
to endorse the
inter
partes,
agreement regarding the shared
residency agreed to without an investigation into whether it was in
the children’s best interest.
[2]
It is common cause on the papers that shared
residency was not in the children’s best interest. Both the
parties now seek
a final determination of primary residency, contact
and care [primary residence]. In so doing, the applicant in Part A,
seeks that
a forensic investigation be conducted to make
recommendations in support of the final determination of primary
residency, Part
B. The respondent accepting that a final
determination of primary residency is required, is opposed to the
applicant’s proposed
recommendation of a forensic investigation
as a method to investigate primary residency. In so doing, the
respondent opposes Part
A seeking its dismissal with punitive costs
and, by way of a counter application seeks: contempt relief, that an
investigation
into the best interest of the children regarding
primary residency be conducted by the family advocate alternatively
by means of
a socio-economic assessment and, the variation of the
settlement agreement. The applicant opposes the relief sought by the
respondent’s
counter application also seeking punitive costs.
[3]
Having regard to the papers filed and the
arguments presented this Court viewed and accepted that that nub of
the application and
counter application related to the resolution of
the envisaged investigations into the best interests of the children
regarding
primary residency and, whether future therapeutic
intervention are required. This however, is not to say that by
identifying the
nub, the Court will not deal with the remaining
issues. To this end, this Court first considers the issue of primary
residence
and the indicated investigation to do so.
# PRIMARY RESIDENCY,
CONTACT AND CARE
PRIMARY RESIDENCY,
CONTACT AND CARE
[4]
The divorce proceedings were initiated by the
respondent. Prior to the finalisation thereof, the respondent
testified at the divorce
proceedings that shared residency
translating into every alternate week had already been initiated by
the parties in August 2020.
Both parties confirmed that it was in the
interest of the children in the context of their family and in
particular in the context
of both their working lives. Both the
parties are medical practitioners in private practice. The applicant
is a gastroenterologist
and the respondent a paediatrician. The
respondent under oath, confirmed to the Court, at the time, the
arrangement of shared residency
also afforded her sons extensive
contact with their father which enables them to enjoy a balanced
upbringing.
[5]
However soon after the order, by the end of March/
beginning of April 2022, it became clear that shared residency was
not in the
children’s best interest. The parties then, with
assistance of a therapist,
inter partes
agreed that the children would
primarily reside with respondent and that the applicant would enjoy
certain contact rights. This
inter
partes
arrangement was not formalized
at that stage, by amending the settlement
agreement nor was it agreed following any investigation into the best
interest rights
of the children.
[6]
Presently the applicant is not satisfied with the
inter partes
arrangement
alleging that the children are not coping, that he is experiencing
parental alienation and that he is unable to successfully
co-parent
with the respondent. In consequence, the applicant asks for the
investigation to take place and moves Part A of his relief
first. The
respondent on the other hand, contends that the
inter
partes
agreement should be formalized
and moves for the variation of the settlement agreement to achieve
that before an investigation.
[7]
The respondent, in her counter application, now
moves to formalise the
inter partes
agreement by seeking a variation of the
settlement agreement.
Should
the settlement agreement be varied to record the inter partes
arrangement
before the
recommendations following an investigation can be considered
?
[8]
After careful consideration, the answer must be
no. An investigation is required before any final determination can
be made let
alone, whether the variation of the settlement agreement
is competent at this stage. This answer was already apparent when the
order was sought when the family advocate refused to endorse the,
inter partes
arrangement
of shared residency absent an investigation. But, the answer too, is
apparent because of the need for this application.
Presently, the
answer has been answered by the parties and their own conduct
themselves. The present
inter partes
arrangement reached in 2022 was
concluded without a prior investigation which need is now common
casue.
[9]
Varying the settlement at this stage will not
only, as described above, fail to bring about an effective outcome
for both parties,
inter partes
,
but a variation in the face of the disputed material issues, is not a
variation by settlement but, by order. The purpose of a
settlement
agreement is to record all the settled terms between parties. This is
not the case in this application as the
inter
partes
agreement has been called into
question. The variation relief recording the
inter
partes
agreement must fail.
[10]
The common cause fact that an investigation must
take place now raised the next question, what type of investigation
will serve
the best interest purpose?
# THE INVESTIGATION
THE INVESTIGATION
[11]
Prior to the launching of this application, it was
common cause that both the applicant and the respondent agreed to
appoint a forensic
expert and, a parenting co-ordinator. Both were
de
facto
agreed upon and duly appointed.
Prior to this agreement and from the respondent’s attorneys
letter dated the 15 February 2024,
the respondent was initially
reluctant to agree to a forensic investigation but she had a change
of heart triggered,
inter alia,
by
the effect the applicant’s life partner on her children’s
emotional and physical well-being. She conveyed to her
attorneys in a
consultation on the 14 February 2024, that the children’s
wellbeing was negatively impacted which required
urgent attention. In
so doing she provided her consent for a forensic investigation to
take place.
[12]
Her
attorneys
echoed
her
sentiments
by
stating
in
the
letter
of
the
15
February 2024,
stated,
inter alia
:
“
-
5.
It is blatantly clear that both the minor
children seek to establish a relationship with your client (the
applicant - own emphasis),
but due to the influence of Sanet
(applicant’s life partner - own emphasis) it seems impossible.
6.
The minor children both confirm Sanet’s
conduct and behaviour towards them is
aggressive
and she blatantly reject the minor children
.
(sic)
(own emphasis)
7.
To such extent where she
not
only threatens physical attacks on the
minor
children but has on more than one occasion threw items
(sic) (own emphasis) such as toys at the minor
children.
8.
-
9.
In consultation, and
despite
our earlier approach to the issue of a forensic
investigation, our client was advised to
agree to a forensic investigation
in
respect of the minor children’s emotional and physical
wellbeing
.
(own
emphasis)
10.
Our client therefore agrees to a forensic
investigation and nominate Dr. Lynette Roux to be appointed jointly
by both parties.
11.
We kindly await
your
client’s urgent reply and trust your client will act in
the best interest of the minor children and
agree to the forensic
investigation
.”
(own emphasis)
[13]
The applicant agreed to the proposed urgent
forensic investigation and, to this end the respondent’s
attorneys acting on instruction
from the respondent authored a
mandate letter to Dr Lynette Roux [Dr Roux] dated the 5 April 2024,
in which they identified the
following areas for investigation:
13.1.
the extent and nature of the relationship between
the minor children and both Dr C[...] and N[...];
13.2.
assessing and recommending primary care and
residence of the minor children;
13.3.
investigating
and
reporting
on
the
allegations
of
parental
alienation
raised
by both Drs C[...] and N[...]
(own
emphasis);
13.4.
the nature and extent of the
relationship
between the minor children
and Dr
N[...]’s life partner
(own-emphasis);
13.5.
the nature and extent of the
relationship
between the minor children
and Dr
C[...]’s life partner
(own
emphasis).
[14]
Over and above this mandate, a parenting
co-ordinator too was agreed upon. Simply put an agreement to the
applicant’s Part
A relief. Dr Roux accepted her mandate and was
to commence her investigation during August 2024. However, on the 23
July 2024,
just prior to the scheduled commencement of the forensic
investigation, the respondent again had a change of heart and
withdrew
her consent for a forensic investigation. She stated that
after a consultation with her attorney and Counsel she decided to
withdraw
her consent and rather now proposed that Ms Jana Van
Jaarsveldt be appointed to do perform a socio-economic assessment by
mutual
consent.
[15]
The respondent’s change of heart, was
recorded by her attorneys in a letter dated the 23 July 2024 [July
2024 letter], wherein
they stated that:
“
2.1.3.
Our
client’s consent is withdrawn due to the fact
that
the minor
children
do not experience emotional trauma
,
(own emphasis) nor do they display emotional behaviour associated
with personal emotional disturbances,
but
the conduct displayed by the minor
children
is a direct result of the ongoing dispute between our
respective
clients
.
(own emphasis)
2.1.4
It is therefore recorded that the inability of
our clients to properly communicate with one another and to respect
one another’s
boundaries in terms of access and visitation, as
well as the primary care of the minor children, has a direct
influence on the
minor children and the crux of the dispute is
therefore initiated by our respective clients and not the minor
children.
2.1.5
The emotional trauma is undergoing a
forensic assessment will
have
an extreme negative impact on the emotional stability of the
minor children
.”
(own emphasis)
[16]
According to the July 2024 letter, the applicant’s
partner, was suddenly no longer the source of the children’s
emotional
trauma, notwithstanding the serious previous allegations to
contrary in February 2024. Furthermore, in the July 2024 letter the
respondent too raised her intent to initiate the contempt relief for,
inter alia
,
the applicant’s refusal to settle his maintenance payments
during 2021. The effect of the July 2024 letter created
confusion regarding the weight of the allegations
wielded against the applicant’s partner, confusion as to the
actual source
of the children’s emotional trauma, it delayed an
agreed and planned forensic investigation from commencing and created
misgivings
again as to whether a forensic investigation was in the
children’s best interest.
[17]
This confusion persisted. In a letter dated the 6
August 2024, the respondent through her attorneys confirmed that
notwithstanding
the ongoing dispute between her and the applicant
about visitation schedules, the need of a parent co-ordinator was
uncalled for.
The respondent contended that the applicant could
simply just accept the schedules she proposed for visitations with
the children.
Ostensibly this would resolve the disputes between the
parties and as a consequence the children’s emotional trauma.
If it
was only that simple but, it’s not because visitation
disputes are not the only dispute between the parties on the papers.
In fact, both the parties papers are littered with allegations of
un-cooperation, personal accusations, lack of ability to co-parent,
disrupted contact and attack of parenting skills, but to name a few.
When these issues are raised they are denied, establishing
further
disputes. The need for a qualified third party to act as a parental
co-ordinator remains called for on both the parties
versions. In
consequence, if not for both the applicant and the respondent then it
is definitely called for when acting in the
interest of their
children. Their children’s vulnerability on the papers,
notwithstanding the aforesaid remains common cause.
The applicant’s
relief for a parental co-ordinator is reasonable and required at this
stage until, a final determination
by the Court is to contrary.
What
type of investigation will serve the purpose
?
[18]
Generally and as a direct result of a divorce a
family
per se
(the
system within which it functions and who is seen to be part of it)
changes substantially. In this matter it is common cause
that both
the applicant and the respondent have new current life partners and
as such the family dynamic has evolved, morphed into
more members, if
you will. The family as it once was and how it used to function is no
longer exists because it has broken up into
two separate units. To
survive and to serve all the members, especially the interests of the
children, the two fragmented units
need to co-exist. The difficulty
is that each fragmented unit begins to operate according to its own
system. Such systems can differ
due to parenting styles, approaches
to life, means how disputes are resolved and, by applying different
philosophies. This creates
complications and potential disputes. The
complications and the
sequelae
thereof
can affect the children and parents alike. In circumstances when both
are affected and, in particular, when the parents
are affected to the
extent that they no longer can co-parent in harmony, the interests of
the children can not be served without
considering the entire family
(both units).
[19]
Considering the evidence there is nothing on the
papers that demonstrates that the applicant and the respondent will
be in a position
to co-parent in harmony in the future and, that they
respect each other’s parenting style and philosophy. From their
interactions
with each other in the past and subsequent upon
obtaining the order, such depicts an inability to steer through
shared residency
and an inability to stabilize the new family unit,
as a whole. In consequence, there appears to be no prospect of an
imminent change
rendering that a constant factor, albeit negative,
which this Court considers.
[20]
As far as the family dynamics are concerned, the
papers too do not demonstrate a level of acceptance, respect and
kindness which
will foster understanding going forward having regard
to all the members, including the new life partners. The possibility
of parental
alienation regarding both parents has been voiced by both
the parties. An allegation or suspicion of parental alienation is not
to be taken lightly as it can cause dire consequences for a child. To
determine the weight of such allegations by an investigation,
remains
a weighty consideration. The Court too, is reminded that the weight
of the consideration still persists, absent any report
of
psycho-pathology of parents or absent any domestic violence or safety
concerns relating to the children. A further consideration
is that if
upon investigation parental alienation is not present as alleged, the
weight of such knowledge may very well create
the harmony needed to
assist the new family system going forward.
[21]
These factors weigh in favour of a forensic
investigation to consider both the family units. However is there
another means to achieve
the same purpose?
Is
a forensic investigation inevitable
?
[22]
The applicant contends that a forensic
investigation is inevitable and the respondent conversely contends
that, although a forensic
investigation is not presently indicated
because it is not the norm and an invasive procedure, and if it
becomes inevitable the
family advocate or another expert can make
that recommendation. In support of their respective contentions both
the parties refer
this Court to various expert opinions. In this
regard, the respondent refers this Court, in her answer and
counterclaim to a report,
authored by Mariaan De Vos, an Educational
Psychologist
[De Vos report] and the
appellant in reply, to an expert report authored by Dr Pretorius, a
counselling and research psychologist
[Dr Pretorius’ report].
[23]
The respondent’s counsel pointed out in her
written submissions that the applicant tried to make out a case for a
forensic
investigation in reply with the use of Dr Pretorious and
not, in his founding papers. Having regard to the submission it is of
critical importance to be reminded that prior to the launching of the
application both parties agreed to a forensic investigation
and that,
the respondent herself in the July 2024 required the applicant’s
urgent consent to affect it. Whether it was out
of ‘the norm’
at this stage was not a consideration. As such, in this application
the applicant moves from the premise
of the agreement to such an
investigation and the
sequelae
of
the respondent’s change of heart which, has hindered his
ability
to co- parent and have undisturbed
contact with his children. The need to weigh and ask which
investigation will serve the purpose
arose with a counterclaim which
now places a counter investigation in the arena. Logically the
applicant could only deal with the
introduction of the proposition in
reply.
[24]
Returning to the reports, both experts were
briefed with different mandates. Different mandates produce different
outcomes. Dr Pretorius
was mandated to review and critique the De Vos
report and Mariaan De Vos was mandated to report on the application
of psychological
socio-emotional assessment and how this will relate
and would be beneficial in this application. As interesting as both
reports
were to read the evidentiary weight which can be attributed
to them is lost at this stage. Neither Dr Pretorius nor Mariaan De
Vos deposed to an affidavit confirming the facts they relied on and
the basis for their respective opinions and recommendations.
In other
words no opinion evidence was tendered under oath.
[25]
What however is clear, is that the extent of a
forensic investigation and socio- economic assessment differ. While
both assessments
aim to support the welfare of the child, they serve
different purposes and,
inter alia,
adopt different approaches. A
socio-emotional assessment is designed to explore and understand the
emotional,
social
and
psychological
needs
of
a
child.
In
other
words
it
is
an
assessment of the child. Whilst a forensic investigation assesses the
entire family system and all those who play a role within
it. This
would now explain the scope of the mandate provided to Dr Roux by
both the respondent’s attorney in April 2024.
[26]
Considering all the evidence, it is inevitable
that the new family unit as a whole must be assessed to address how
they, as separate
units, are going to co- exist to ensure that the
children are able to grow and thrive within the new norm. Furthermore
the real
cause of the children’s emotional trauma must be
found. The confusion created by the respondent warrants
investigation. The
only way to do that is to consider all the
members, including the applicant’s partner. If not, and as it
stands, the applicant’s
partners name may still remain
unmentioned in the respondent’s home unless prompted by the
children. Nothing on the papers
demonstrates that the applicant’s
partner will not remain part of the new family unit, an investigation
into her relationship
with the children and the veracity of the
allegations must be investigated. Lastly and as previously discussed
allegations of parental
alienation must be investigated and explored
before a final determination in part B is made. A forensic
investigation rather than
a socio-economic investigation is
indicated.
[27]
To delay would delay the inevitable and a delay
would trigger the finalisation of the determination of primary
residency, an issue
both parties require and which this Court deems
is in the interest to finalise in the interest of the children.
Lastly, the Court
is aware that the family advocate too can call for
such a forensic investigation but, considers any delay an important
factor.
The facts support the applicant’s relief for a forensic
investigation and a formalised instruction is required.
# CONTEMPT RELIEF
CONTEMPT RELIEF
[28]
The respondent in her counterclaim seeks contempt
relief. Unfortunately, the formulation of the contempt relief is not
fully understood
and, when read in numerical context is confusing.
The contempt relief is sought in the alternative. In prayer 2 and 3
the respondent
seeks a declarator coupled with the payment of
maintenance of R97,866.01 and calls the applicant’s immediate
committal of
imprisonment for a period of 30 days. In the alternative
to prayers 2 and 3 the respondent seeks prayers 4 and 5. In prayer 4,
the respondent seeks the applicant’s committal for 30 days duly
suspended provided the applicant purges his contempt. The
committal
in prayer 4 is sought absent prayer 2, thus absent a declarator to
sustain a basis for such committal. To compound the
confusion, in
prayer 5, which is not sought in the alternative to prayer 4, the
respondent seeks to supplement her papers to seek
a committal in the
event that the applicant fails to comply with the contempt relief.
The confusion was not explained at the hearing,
however the
respondent’s Counsel from the bar, moved for an oral amendment.
It was not opposed. The respondent now sought
a declarator, coupled
with an order that the applicant be ordered to comply with the terms
of the settlement agreement and the
terms of prayer 5 [amended
contempt relief]. However the apparent absurdity of the amended
relief lies in the fact that both the
applicant and the respondent
have not adhered to the terms of the settlement agreement. This
occurred the moment they,
inter partes
,
agreed not
to comply with the shared
residency clause. Furthermore, they both seek an investigation
regarding primary residency to remedy such
non-compliance. This
appears to be
an inherent difficulty with
the effectiveness of the unqualifies amended contempt relief.
[29]
Over and above the inherent difficulty and now
considering that the respondent could not, nor did she pursue the
payment of the
alleged arrear maintenance of R97,866.01, can
non-compliance of the settlement agreement be proved to sustain a
declarator?
[30]
To
commence and for the sake of clarity, no matter the objectives of a
party seeking contempt relief this is even in the presence
of
personal interest “
contempt
of court is not an issue inter partes; it’s an issue between
the court and the party who has not complied with a
mandatory order
of court
”
.
[1]
[31]
This
point was elaborated by Plasket J in the Victoria Park Ratepayers
[2]
matter and he expressed the following view in a constitutional text:
“
It
is clear that contempt of court is not merely a mechanism for the
enforcement of court orders. The jurisdiction of the Superior
Courts
to commit
recalcitrant
litigants for contempt of court when they fail or refuse to obey
court
orders
(own
emphasis) has at its heart the very effectiveness and legitimacy of
the judicial system … That, in turn, means that
the Court
called upon to commit such a litigant for his or her contempt is not
only dealing with the individual interest of the
frustrated
successful litigant
(own
emphasis) but also, as importantly, acting as guardian of the public
interest
.”
[32]
These
are not the facts before this Court. The respondent is not a
frustrated litigant who has been faced with a recalcitrant applicant
who has refused time and time again to honour his maintenance
obligations in favour of his children. In fact, the applicant
contends
that he has not unlawfully and intentionally disobeyed a
court order. But that he has paid over the years. No deliberate
disregard
is demonstrated and even if it has, this is not enough,
since the non-complier, the applicant, in this case, may generally,
albeit
mistakenly, believe him or herself entitled to act in the way
claimed to constitute the contempt. According to Cameron JA sitting
in the Supreme Court of Appeal,
[3]
in such a case of good faith, it avoids the infraction. Even a
refusal to comply that is objectively unreasonable may be
bona
fide
(though
unreasonableness could evidence a lack of good faith). In other
words, an honest belief that the non-compliance is justified
or
proper is incompatible with intent as too the burden. This is exactly
what the applicant contends. He contends that he has always
paid
maintenance and believes the respondent’s calculations are not
a correct reconciliation of 2021.
[33]
Notwithstanding the factual disparity on the
papers of the applicant’s non- compliance, the consequence of
the amendment contempt
relief by not claiming the payment of the full
amount prayed for but still seeking a declarator was telling, in that
the applicant’s
version that he did not owe the money according
to his calculations after thoroughly explaining his response, makes
his version
plausible. If plausible it cannot just outrightly be
rejected as fictitious which renders the requisite
onus
by
the
respondent
to
prove
a
non-compliance
of
the
settlement agreement
difficult to
discharge. In turn, any
evidentiary burden to disturb a finding of
mala
fides
and wilfulness attracted by the
respondent, becomes possible.
[34]
The Court finds that the respondent did not
discharge her onus of non- compliance of the settlement agreement.
However, even if
this Court is incorrect, the applicant’s
version is plausible enough to ward off a finding of
mala
fide
and wilfulness. The respondent’s
amended contempt relief fails.
COST OF THE
AU
PAIR
[35]
The respondent seeks to amend the settlement
agreement by adding a clause 3.1.7. The proposed 3.1.7 is to create
an obligation that
the applicant is to pay for the costs of an
au
pair
for the children after 2023.
[36]
The relief sought is not based on the payment of
an alleged settled expense the parties reached by agreement, nor that
such an obligation
could, by agreement, be recorded in the settlement
agreement. The respondent pleaded the terms of an oral agreement and
claims
a contractual remedy for its breach, namely specific
performance in circumstances when an agreement to vary the settlement
is not
pleaded. A novel but incompetent approach. Both the consensus
in respect of the conclusion of the oral agreement and, that such
obligation can be recorded in the settlement agreement by its
addition, is in dispute. The relief sought is not underscored by
the
pleaded facts. Specific performance is not sought to remedy the
default of an existing term, namely payment of the au pair’s
salary already incurred by the respondent as a result of an existing
material term. The remedy sought is to establish a future
obligation.
In the absence of such a pleaded term to vary the settlement on that
basis based on contract, as pleaded, the relief
must fail. This is
without this Court having to have resolve to the dispute of facts on
the papers regarding the conclusion of
the agreement in the first
place.
[37]
In consequences the Part A must succeed and the
counter claim dismissed. There was no argument that costs should not
follow the
result. Both parties seek punitive costs but
notwithstanding the submissions relied on, this Court in exercising
its discretion
is not persuaded that such award should be considered.
[38]
Having regard to all of the facts the following
order:
1.
The Respondent is granted condonation for the late
filing of her answering affidavit.
2.
Dr Roux is appointed to conduct a forensic
investigation into the best interests of G[...] J[...] N[...] and
P[...] N[...] the [minor
children] regarding primary residence, care
and contact as well as future therapeutic intervention in respect of
the minor children
and the parties and to provide this Court with
written recommendations including:
2.1
the extent and nature of the relationship between
the minor children and both Dr C[...] and N[...].
2.2
assessing and recommending primary care and
residence of the minor children.
2.3
investigating and reporting on the allegations of
parental alienation raised by both Drs C[...] and N[...].
2.4
the nature and extent of the relationship between
the minor children and Dr N[...]’s life partner.
2.5
the nature and extent of the relationship between
the minor children and Dr C[...]’s life partner.
3.
The parties are equally liable for the costs of
the forensic investigation.
4.
A parenting co-ordinator is to be appointed within
7 (seven) days of the date of this order:
4.1
To finalize the contact schedule in respect of the
remainder of 2024;
4.2
To finalize the contact schedule in respect of
2025 and beyond, if it becomes necessary to do so; and
4.3
To resolve disputes that may arise from the
parties’ exercise of their parental responsibilities and rights
relating to the
care and contact with the children.
5.
That in the event the parties are unable to agree
to the nomination of a parenting co-ordinator within 3 (three) days
of date of
this order, that the chairperson of the Pretoria Society
of Advocates nominate the parenting co-ordinator, which nomination
the
parties are bound to accept.
6.
That the parenting co-ordinator shall continue to
act in this role until removed by an order of court.
7.
That the costs of the parenting co-ordinator
including sessions with him/her shall be borne equally by the
parties, unless otherwise
directed by the parenting co-ordinator.
8.
In the event of the respondent and/or applicant
failing to participate in any facilitation/mediation or other process
as required
by the parenting co-ordinator, despite having been
requested on reasonable notice to do so by the parenting
co-ordinator, then
and in such an event the parenting co-ordinator
shall be entitled to make a directive which shall be binding until a
court of competent
jurisdiction may on application of either party
direct otherwise.
9.
Recommendations and decisions of the parenting
co-ordinator shall, where requested by either party, be made in
writing, duly supported
by reasons therefore.
10.
If Court proceedings ensue, whether prior to or
after the parenting co- ordinator’s recommendation/s are made,
the evidence
available to the parenting co-ordinator or any document
so tabled, including relevant documentation in the possession of the
parenting
co-ordinator, including from past and present medical
practitioners or mental health professionals, the decision/s and/or
recommendation/s
and reasons therefore of the medical practitioners
or mental health professionals or other professional shall be
admissible in
such court proceedings.
11.
Pending the finalization of the contact schedule
by the parenting co- ordinator, the contact schedule appended hereto
as annexure
A shall be the contact schedule to be implemented by the
parties. The applicant shall exercise his rights of contact as per
the
contact schedule.
12.
The Respondent’s counterclaim is dismissed.
13.
Part B of the application is postponed
sine
die
.
14.
The Respondent is to the pay the costs of part A
of the application and the costs associated with the Respondent’s
counterclaim
on a party and party scale, including the cost of 2
(two) Counsel where so employed, taxed on Scale C.
# L.A. RETIEF
L.A. RETIEF
Judge of the High Court
Gauteng Division
#
# Appearances:
Appearances:
For the Applicant: ML
Haskins SC Cell: 083 610 1060
Email:
haskins@lawcircle.co.za
Adv G. Kyriazis Cell: 083
496 5275
Email:
gina@lawcircle.co.za
Instructed by attorneys:
Phillip Venter Attorneys
Tel: 086 100 7669
Email:
phillip@pvlaw.co.za
Ref: P
Venter/nag/0002/FM
For the Respondent Adv L
Van Der Westhuizen Cell: 082 636 9121
Instructed by attorneys:
Steenkamp Van Niekerk Incorporated
Tel: (012) 882 0976
Email:
pieter@svnincorporated.co.za
Ref:
PJ Steenkamp/sc/3900
Date of hearing: 13 March
2025
Date of judgment: 24
March 2025
[1]
Federation
of
Governing
Bodies
of
South
African
Schools
(Gauteng)
v
MEC
for
Education,
Gauteng
2002
(1) SA 660
(T) at 637D-E (Southwood and Basson JJ concurring).
[2]
Victoria
Park Ratepayers’ Association
[2004]
3 SA
All
633.
[3]
Fakie
N.O. v CCII Systems (Pty) Ltd (653/04)
[2006] ZASCA 52
;
2006 (4) SA
326
(SCA) (31 March 2006).
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