Case Law[2024] ZAGPPHC 686South Africa
R.J v M.P (2024/068129) [2024] ZAGPPHC 686 (5 July 2024)
High Court of South Africa (Gauteng Division, Pretoria)
5 July 2024
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## R.J v M.P (2024/068129) [2024] ZAGPPHC 686 (5 July 2024)
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IN
THE HIGH COURT OF SOUTH AFRICA
GAUTENG
DIVISION, PRETORIA
1.
REPORTABLE : YES/NO
2.
Of INTEREST TO OTHER JUDGES : YES/NO
3.
REVISED : YES/NO
5
July 2024
Case
number: 2024/068129
In
the matter between:
R[....]
J[.
...]
APPLICANT
and
M[..
..]
P[..
..]
RESPONDENT
JUDGMENT
MARX
DU PLESSIS, AJ
Introduction
1.
Before me is an application for contempt of
court. The application came before me in the Family Court as one of
urgency.
2.
The respondent raised a point
in
limine
regarding the validity of the
applicant's founding affidavit and the authenticity of the
applicant's signature appended thereto.
After hearing argument, the
point
in limine
was
dismissed with costs. The reasons here for do not form part of this
judgment as this has been dealt with in an
extempore
judgment.
Background
facts
3.
The background facts appear from the
parties' respective affidavits filed in the application
before me as well as a previous urgent
application
which
forms part of
the
Caselines
file,
and
to
which I
was
referred.
4.
The
parties
were
engaged
in a
romantic
relationship
pursuant
to
which their son, referred
to herein as MJ, was born. MJ is currently
3 (three years) and 6 (six) months of age.
5.
The parties agreed that MJ would primarily
reside with the respondent, and until October 2023 the parties were
able to arrange and
regulate the applicant's contact with MJ amongst
themselves and without resorting to litigation. The parties'
agreement
regarding
their
respective
parental
responsibilities
and
rights
in respect of MJ was reduced to writing during March 2022, but their
agreement was never made an order of court.
6.
During November 2023, the applicant engaged
the respondent and attempted to make holiday arrangements which
entailed taking MJ to
George for a period of 7 (seven) days over the
2023 Christmas period. The applicant's request for contact with MJ
during December
2023 was rejected by the respondent. The respondent
indicates that the applicant's request was initially approved but
ultimately
rejected as the applicant had not communicated to her the
dates on which he intended to remove MJ.
7.
Shortly after the applicant's request for
contact was refused by the respondent, the applicant was served with
an interim protection
order issued by the Domestic Violence Court in
favour of the respondent on 18 December 2023, one day before the
applicant planned
on leaving for George. Based on the interim
protection order, and the length of the intended holiday to George,
the applicant's
further request to remove MJ to George for 7 (seven)
days during December 2023 was rejected.
8.
The respondent, through her attorneys,
knowing of the applicant's intention to leave for George on 20
December
2023,
indicated that the respondent
was
not of the intention to prohibit contact between the applicant and
MJ, and asked the applicant at what time he would collect
the minor
child for his contact weekend starting on 22 December 2023 until 24
December
2023, a
period during which the respondent
knew
the applicant
would
not be in Gauteng.
9.
Eventually, and during or about February
2024, the parties settled the proceedings in the Domestic Violence
Court, and it was agreed,
inter alia,
that the respondent would withdraw the
application for a protection order in relation to MJ.
10.
The respondent was required to attend Cape
Town for business during April 2024 and she, through her attorneys,
requested the applicant
to exchange their respective contact
weekends, and suggested that the applicant exercise contact with MJ
during her trip to Cape
Town from 22 April 2024 to 25 April 2024. The
applicant's contact weekend was scheduled to take place from 26 April
2024 until
28 April 2024.
11.
The effect of the exchange of weekend
contact would result in the applicant not exercising contact with MJ
for the period 26 April
2024 until 28 April 2024. The effect of the
parties' failure to exchange contact weekends would be that MJ would
not have contact
with the respondent from 22 April 2024 until 28
April 2024.
12.
The respondent's request in relation to the
exchange of weekend contact was denied by the applicant, but the
applicant indicated
that he was willing to care for MJ while the
respondent was in Cape Town.
13.
The applicant's refusal was met with the
following response from the respondent's attorney of record:
"4.
Your
client's refusal to exchange the contact weekend has
a
sever effect on the minor child, the
minor child is of such
a
young
age that being away from his mother, being the primary caregiver, for
such a long period of time is not in his best interest.
5.
We remind you that the current contact
arrangement are an informal agreement between the parties pending the
outcome of mediation.
It is saddening that the parties have worked
well together the past two weeks when the minor child was sick and
yet your client
now turns around and sets back the progress that has
been made.
6.
In light of the above do we confirm
our instructions that our client will collect the minor child from
his school on the 26
th
of
April 2024 upon her return, should your client obstruct our client to
collect the minor child will such conduct result
in
a
criminal matter being instituted.
7.
Should
your client persist with his refusal to exchange the weekend contact
will our client make alternative arrangements pertaining
to the care
of the minor child for the 22
nd
-
25
th
of
April 2024 whereby your client can then still have his contact on the
weekend of the 26th of April 2024." (sic)
[1]
14.
Despite the above threats, MJ remained in
the care of the applicant from 22 April 2024 until 28 April 2024.
Shortly after MJ's return
to the care of the respondent, and on 1 May
2024, the respondent complained of MJ conducting himself
inappropriately, and proceeded
to suspend the applicant's contact
with MJ, tendering one hour of supervised contact every second
Saturday.
15.
The applicant proceeded to launch an urgent
application against the respondent, seeking
inter
a/ia,
an interim order formalising and
defining contact between him and MJ. It is apparent that the need for
this stemmed from the fact
that in the absence of a court order or
formal agreement, the respondent regulated the applicant's contact
with MJ as she saw fit.
16.
The
respondent
opposed
the
relief
sought
by the
applicant
and
in
fact
sought an
order dismissing the application, denying that the applicant is
entitled to any contact with MJ whatsoever, but also submitting
that
a healthy relationship between the applicant
and MJ is important
to her.
17.
On
the date of hearing of the application, 21 May 2024, the parties
agreed to the content of a draft order which was subsequently
made an
order of court
('the
May 2024 order).
[2]
In
terms of the May 2024 order, an expert is appointed to conduct an
investigation and to prepare a forensic report on certain specified
aspects, and the applicant is awarded supervised contact with MJ.
18.
The
relevant portions of the court order provide as follows:
"2.
That
the
Applicant
be
awarded
contact
with
the
minor
child
in
the following manner:
2.1
Telephonic contact every day as
arranged on the existing WhatsApp Group.
2.2
Physical contact, under supervision
of Mr. Owen Ne/ I alternatively the maternal grandfather of the minor
son along with Mrs. Sonja
Theron every alternative Saturday or Sunday
for a maximum of 4 (four) hours, at
a
public venue to be arranged between the
respective Legal Representatives, or on the existing WhatsApp Group
on the condition that
Mr Ne/ alternatively the maternal grandfather
of the minor son and Mrs. Sonja Theron shall attend solely as
observers and not take
part in any conversation between the Applicant
and the Minor Child." (sic)
The
facts precipitating the contempt application
19.
The applicant exercised supervised contact
in terms of the May 2024 order on two occasions, both occasions being
marred by some
incident or complaint.
20.
Arrangements were made for the applicant to
have contact with MJ in terms of the May 2024 order on 26 May 2024.
Initially, the applicant
requested permission to take MJ to church
and to a restaurant thereafter. The applicant confirmed that a family
member and the
child of the family member would accompany him and MJ
to the restaurant.
21.
The respondent denied the applicant's
request on the basis that the court order does not provide for the
applicant to travel with
the parties' minor child. No objection was
raised to the applicant and MJ being accompanied by a family member
and the family member's
child.
22.
After conclusion of the contact session,
and on 27 May 2024, the respondent, through her attorneys, informed
the applicant that
they were of the view that he had contravened the
provisions of the May 2024 order by allowing third parties to attend
the contact
sessions. The applicant was threatened with a contempt
application and criminal complaints.
23.
According to the applicant, the contact
session on 26 May 2024 was observed by the respondent's
legal representative who had taken
photographs
of
him,and
the
other
persons
present,
and
Mr
Nel
appeared
to
have
recorded
or shared the contact session via
videocall.
24.
The attendance of the respondent's legal
representative at the contact session between the applicant and MJ on
26 May 2024 was confirmed
by the respondent's attorney who also
recorded that he attended the contact session on instruction of the
respondent and that the
purpose of his attendance was to prove the
applicant's deliberate failure to adhere to the provisions of the
court order.
25.
From the correspondence exchanged between
the parties' respective attorneys pursuant to the contact session on
26 May 2024, it is
apparent that the parties interpret the provisions
of paragraph 2.2 of the May 2024 differently.
26.
The applicant is of the view that the order
does not restrict contact between MJ and his mother, Mrs. Theron, but
simply provides
that she is not to interrupt or interject in a
conversation between him and MJ.
27.
The respondent on the other hand is of the
view that the May 2024 order prohibits any and all contact between
the MJ and the appointed
observers. Based on the use of the words
'solely'
to describe and designate the purpose
and functions of the appointed supervisors during the contact
sessions between MJ and the
applicant, I am inclined to agree with
the respondent's interpretation of paragraph 2.2 of the May 2024
order.
28.
Despite the parties' differing
interpretations of the May 2024 order, contact was scheduled for, and
took place on, 9 June 2024.
This occurred after the respondent
sought, and was given, an undertaking by the applicant that he would
adhere to the provisions
of the court order.
29.
During the contact session on 9 June 2024,
MJ had picked a flower for his grandmother, Mrs. Sonja Theron. When
MJ saw her, he approached
her and handed the flower to her. As any
grandmother would, she engaged MJ, and they had an interaction with
one another. The respondent
denies that the interaction was a simple
exchange of a flower between a grandmother and her grandson. The
respondent relies on
closed circuit video footage that she obtained
from restaurant at which the contact session took place.
Unfortunately, the video
footage uploaded onto Caselines could not be
accessed.
30.
On 10 June 2024, the applicant requested to
exercise contact with MJ on Father's Day. This request was denied by
the respondent
on 12 June 2024 on the basis that contact on Father's
Day is not provided for in terms of the May 2024 order and that
Father's
Day does not fall on a weekend during the which the
applicant was entitled to exercise contact.
31.
In the same correspondence dated 12 June
2024, the respondent's attorney records that the applicant again
contravened the May 2024
order by allowing an interaction to take
place between MJ and Mrs. Theron, and that MJ displayed behavioural
changes after conclusion
of the contact session. The behavioural
changes are not identified or discussed.
32.
The respondent then proceeded to terminate
the applicant's physical contact with MJ, as a result of which the
applicant launched
the application for contempt presently before me.
Principles
applicable to contempt of court applications
33.
Our
law on contempt of court is well established. Contempt of court is
defined as
"the
deliberate, intentional (i.e., wilful), disobedience of an order
granted by
a
court
of competent jurisdiction".
[3]
34.
Contempt
proceedings serve three important purposes namely,[1] protecting the
rights of everyone to fair trials, [2] maintaining
public confidence
in the judicial arm of government, and [3] upholding the integrity of
court orders.
[4]
35.
The
Supreme
Court
of Appeal in
Fakie
N.O. v CCII Systems
(Pty)
Ltd
[5]
held:
"
The test for when disobedience
of
a
civil order constitutes
contempt
has
come to
be
stated
as
whether
the
breach
was
committed
'deliberately
and
ma/a
fide'.
A
deliberate
disregard
is
not
enough,
since
the
non-complier
may genuinely,
albeit
mistakenly,
believe
him
or
herself
entitled
to
act
in
the
way claimed
to
constitute
the
contempt.
In
such
a
case,
good
faith
avoids
the
infraction.
Even
a
refusal to comply that
is
objectively unreasonable may be bona
fide (though unreasonableness could evidence lack of good faith).
These
requirements
-
that
the refusal to obey should be both wilful and
ma/a
fide, and that unreasonable
non-compliance, provided it is bona fide,
does
not constitute contempt
-
accord with the broader definition of
the crime, of which non-compliance with civil orders is
a
manifestation. They show that the
offence is committed not by mere disregard of
a
court order, but by the deliberate and
intentional violation of the court's dignity, repute, or authority
that this
evinces.
Honest belief that non-compliance is justified or proper is
incompatible with that intent."
36.
Additionally,
the SCA went on to summarise the rationale and requirements for civil
contempt as being:
[6]
"(a)
The civil contempt
procedure
is
a
valuable
and important mechanism for securing compliance with court orders,
and survives constitutional scrutiny in the form of
a
motion court application adapted to
constitutional requirements.
(b)
The respondent in such proceedings
is not an accused person but is entitled to analogous protections
as
are appropriate to motion proceedings.
(c)
In particular, the applicant must
prove the requisites of contempt (the order; service or notice;
non-compliance; and wilfulness
and
ma/a
tides) beyond reasonable doubt.
(d)
But, once the applicant has proved
the order, service or notice, and no"n compliance, the
respondent bears an evidential
burden in relation to wilfulness and
ma/a
tides:
Should the respondent
fail
to advance evidence
that
establishes a reasonable doubt as to whether non-compliance was
wilful and
ma/a
fide,
contempt will have been established
beyond reasonable doubt."
37.
In
summary, an applicant in a contempt application must establish [1]
the court order; [2] service or notice of the order; [3]
non-compliance with the terms of the order; and [4] wilfulness and
ma/a
fides.
[7]
But,
once an applicant has proved [1], [2] and [3] the respondent bears an
evidentiary burden in relation to [4].
38.
In
Pheko
and Others v Ekurhuleni Metropolitan Municipality,
[8]
Nkabinde
J restated that:
"Contempt
of court is understood as the
commission
of
any act or statement
that displays
disrespect for the authority of the court or its officers acting in
an official capacity. This includes acts of contumacy
in both senses:
wilful disobedience and resistance to lawful court orders.
..
Wilful disobedience of an order made in
civil proceedings is both contemptuous and a criminal offence.
The
object of contempt proceedings is to impose a penalty that will
vindicate the court's honour, consequent upon the disregard
of its
previous order, as well as to compel performance in accordance with
the previous order."
39.
In
Matjhabeng
Local Municipality v Eskom Holdings Limited
[9]
and Others; Mkhonto and Others v Compensation Solutions (Pty) Limite
the
principles applicable to the onus of proof in contempt proceedings
were clarified as follows:
'
...
I
am of the view that the standard of proof must be applied in
accordance with the purpose sought to be achieved, differently put,
the consequences of the various remedies. As I understand it, the
maintenance of
a
distinction
does have
a
practical
significance: the civil contempt remedies of committal or
a
fine
have material consequences on an individual's freedom and security of
the person. However, it is necessary in some instances
because
disregard of
a
court
order not only deprives the other party of the benefit of the order
but also impairs the effective administration of justice.
There, the
criminal standard of proof
-
beyond
reasonable
doubt
-
applies
always.
A
fitting example
of
this is Fakie. On the other hand, there are civil contempt remedies
-
for
example, declaratory relief, mandamus, or
a
structural
interdict
-
that
do not have the consequence of depriving an individual of their right
to freedom and security of
the
person.
A
fitting
example
of
this is Burchell.
Here,
and
I
stress,
the
civil
standard of proof- a balance of probabilities
-
applies.'
[10]
40.
Because
the relief sought in this contempt application is committal to
imprisonment, the criminal standard of proof of beyond a
reasonable
doubt applies.
[11]
The onus is
therefore not the ordinary civil onus, (i.e., on a balance of
probabilities), but instead one of beyond reasonable
doubt.
41.
As
such,
if,
on
a
conspectus
of
all
the
evidence,
there
is
a
reasonable
possibility
that non-compliance with the court order in issue was not wilful and
ma/a
fide,
contempt
is not established.
[12]
42.
Furthermore,
where most of a court order has been complied with and the non
compliance is in respect of some minor matter only,
the Court will
take the substantial compliance into account, and will not commit for
a minor non compliance, i.e. an applicant
must show a material
non-compliance with the court order.
[13]
43.
What constitutes a material non-compliance
will depend on the circumstances prevailing at the time of
non-compliance.
Application
of the legal principles to the facts
44.
In these proceedings, it is common cause
that (a) a court order exists; (b) the respondent has knowledge of
the court order; and
(c) the respondent has refused to allow the
applicant to exercise his rights of physical contact with MJ in terms
thereof, i.e.
non-compliance by the respondent. The respondent's
wilful non-compliance and ma/a
tides
are
in dispute.
45.
It is evident from the discussion of the
relevant facts above that the parties interpret the May 2024 order
differently. There can
be no doubt that their varying interpretations
of the May 2024 order contributed to the respondent's belief that the
applicant
was in contravention of the May 2024 order, prompting her,
on her version, to suspend the applicant's rights in terms of the May
2024. In doing so, the respondent took the law into her own hands.
46.
Prior
to the first contact session in terms of the May 2024 order, the
applicant, while arranging the contact session, informed
the
respondent that he and MJ would be accompanied by third parties
during the course of their contact session.
47.
The respondent denied the applicant's
request to take MJ to church and then to a restaurant and provided no
response whatsoever
to the applicant's notification to her about the
third parties.
48.
The respondent's non-response and failure
to object to the attendance of third parties during the contact
session is evidence of
her acceptance of their attendance, and their
right to attend the contact session, and I am of the view that the
applicant genuinely,
even if mistakenly, believed that he was
entitled to proceed as he did.
49.
Therefore, any complaint by the respondent
in relation to third parties attending the contact session is in my
view baseless and
cannot serve as support for the respondent's
decision to suspend the applicant's contact in terms of the May 2024
order.
50.
MJ is a young child of 3 (three) years and
seven (7) months. At his age, MJ is starting to learn about sharing
and developing relationships,
relationships which will shape the way
he approaches life and sees himself and the world. Relationships with
family and friends
affect all areas of a child's development.
51.
It is imperative for a child of MJ's age to
have meaningful contact and engagements with the adults in his life,
even more so the
adults with who he already shares a bond and
attachment.
52.
In view of MJ's age and developmental
stage, it is natural for MJ to want to engage with his grandmother as
he did during the contact
session on 9 June 2024. Had there been a
sudden interruption of their interaction, this would certainly, at
the very least, have
caused MJ to become upset, impacting negatively
on the already limited time MJ was to spend with the applicant.
53.
I find the respondent's insistence that
there be no interaction between MJ and his grandmother at all very
unreasonable, particularly
in view of the fact that no allegations of
improper conduct are made against Mrs Theron, whether directly or by
implication, by
the respondent.
54.
It was argued that Mrs Theron and her
conduct, the nature of which is not disclosed at all, is what started
and forms the basis
of the disputes between the parties, particularly
the restriction of contact between the applicant and MJ and MJ and
the applicant's
family.
55.
When asked why this was never disclosed on
any of the papers filed of record, it was submitted that there was
much of Mrs Theron's
conduct and the history of the parties that the
Court does not know of, and which is not on the papers.
56.
The respondent's assertions in relation to
Mrs Theron are not borne out by the papers and had her concerns
regarding the conduct
of Mrs Theron been genuine, and the source of
her initial complaints and concerns as argued, surely allegations to
this effect
and in relation thereto would have been contained in the
affidavits filed of record, particularly in view of the fact that the
respondent is accused of acting ma/a
fide.
57.
Although I agree that in terms of the May
2024 order there may be no interaction or engagement between MJ and
Mrs Theron, the interaction
is a minor infraction of the May 2024
order and does not warrant the suspension of the applicant's rights
in terms thereof.
58.
It appears from the conduct of the
respondent, which is set out and addressed in the preceding
paragraphs, particularly her refusal
to allow reasonable requests for
contact between MJ and the applicant, her refusal to allow holiday
visits, as well as her constant
threats of criminal prosecution and
contempt proceedings against the applicant should he not do as she
wishes in relation to MJ,
that the respondent's
suspension of the applicant's contact with
MJ in terms of the May 2024 order may be wilful.
59.
I am however mindful of the allegations regarding the concerning
conduct and behaviour displayed by MJ and that the respondent
may in
fact be motivated thereby to protect MJ at all costs.
60.
Whether there is any merit to the
allegations regarding MJ's conduct and the need to protect him in the
way the respondent has,
a way that encroaches heavily on the rights
of the applicant and his family, remains to be seen and will only be
known once the
report of Marita Rademeyer has been published.
61.
As a result, and in the absence of the
report by Marita Rademeyer, I am unable to determine whether the
respondent's conduct, although
apparently unreasonable, is wilful and
ma/a
fide.
For
this reason, I am of the view that the appropriate order would be to
postpone the prayers relating to a finding of contempt
and the
appropriate sanction should a finding of contempt be made.
Amendment
of the May 2024 order
62.
In order to avoid any future disputes
surrounding the May 2024 order and the manner in which the
applicant's contact rights are
to be exercised in terms thereof, I
deem it necessary to amend the May 2024 order in such a way that the
parties are left with
no doubt as to the circumstances under which
the applicant is to exercise contact with MJ and what the roles of
the appointed supervisors
are.
63.
During the hearing I asked to be addressed
on my powers to amend or vary the existing May 2024 order. Both
counsel appearing argued
that I was not empowered to do so as there
was no application for variation pending before me.
64.
In terms of the provisions of Rule 42(1) of
the Uniform Rules of Court, a Court may, in addition to any other
powers it may have,
mero motu
or
upon the application of any party affected, rescind or vary an order
or judgment in which there is an ambiguity, but only to
the extent of
such ambiguity.
65.
I therefore propose to amend the May 2024 order as set out hereunder.
Conclusion
66.
I have already expressed certain concerns regarding the conduct of
the respondent and the reasonableness of her refusal
of some of the
applicant's requests for contact with MJ.
67.
The respondent is in a position of power,
this is the case by virtue of the fact that she is MJ's primary
caregiver and his primary
place of residence vests with her. The
respondent has exerted her power as MJ's primary caregiver, this is
evident from her conduct
set out above.
68.
The respondent clearly thinks that this
position of power she finds herself in allows her the authority to
enforce the May 2024
in the manner she deems fit. This is not the
case, The respondent is reminded that, just as the applicant, she is
bound by the
provisions of the May 2024 order and must comply
therewith.
69.
The purpose of the May 2024 order is to
protect MJ while allowing both MJ and the applicant to share time
with one another, in a
protected environment, pending the publication
of Marita Rademeyer's report. While awaiting the report, the May 2024
order should
not serve or be used to oppress anyone affected thereby,
or to achieve an ulterior end.
70.
The respondent cannot, as she has done
until now, suspend or alter the applicant's conduct as she deems fit,
that is function and
power reserved for this Court.
71.
The parties are implored to conduct
themselves in a manner which serves and promotes MJ's best interests.
Their conduct and decisions
affect him now, and always, and will
inevitably have a lasting effect on him and the man he is to become.
I
make the following order:
1.
Paragraph 2 of the court order dated 21 May
2024, granted by Francis Subbiah J, is deleted and replaced with the
following:
"2.
The Applicant
is awarded
contact
with the minor
child,
which
contact
he is to exercise in the following
manner:
2.1
Telephonic
contact every day
as
arranged
on the existing WhatsApp Group.
2.2
Physical
contact,
under
supervision
of
Mr.
Owen
Ne/ alternatively the maternal grandfather of
the minor child and Mrs. Sonja Theron every alternative Saturday or
Sunday for
a
maximum
of 4 (four) hours, at
a
public
venue to be arranged between the respective Legal Representatives, or
between the parties on the existing WhatsApp Group,
on the condition
that Mr Owen Ne/ alternatively the maternal grandfather of the minor
son and Mrs. Sonja Theron shall attend the
contact sessions between
the Applicant and the minor child solely and exclusively
as
observers. Mr Owen Ne/ alternatively the
maternal grandfather of the minor child and Mrs.Sonja Theron shall
not take part in the
contact sessions between the Applicant and the
minor child and shall not engage in any conversation or interaction
with the minor
child and/or the Applicant during such contact
sessions.
2.
The Respondent is directed to restore the
Applicant's contact rights to MJ, born on 29 January 2021, with
immediate effect.
3.
The Applicant shall be entitled to exercise
contact with MJ during the upcoming weekend either on the Saturday or
Sunday (6 July
2024 or 7 July 2024), as well as every alternative
weekend thereafter, in accordance with paragraph 2 of the order dated
21 May
2024, as amended in terms of paragraph 1 hereof.
4.
Prayers 2, 5, 6 and 7 of the applicant's
notice of motion dated 20 June 2024 is postponed
sine
die.
5.
Should the respondent fail to comply with
paragraphs 2 and 3 hereof, the applicant is entitled to approach this
court, on the same
papers, duly supplemented,
for an order in terms of prayers 2, 5, 6
and 7 of the notice of motion.
6.
The respondent is ordered to pay the costs
of enrolment of, and the argument of, the matter on the urgent roll
of 2 July 2024. All
other costs are reserved.
Date
of Hearing: 2 July
Judgment
delivered: 5 July 2024
Appearances:
Counsel
for the applicant: A. Koekemoer
Counsel
for
the
respondent: J. Brand SC
[1]
The
respondent, through her attorneys, have made various similar threats
to the applicant. Additionally, the respondent's assertion
that the
length of the contact period for which MJ would be in the
applicant's care is not in MJ's best interest is,
in
my view, rendered meritless by the fact that the respondent, on her
own version, was willing
to
allow MJ to remain in
the
care of a third party for the duration of her trip to Cape Town
after which she would allow the applicant to exercise contact
with
MJ as usual. MJ would then in any event be away from the respondent,
not in
her
care, for the same duration, but MJ would just not be in
the
care of the applicant. The respondent's proposal is also contrary to
the earlier written agreement concluded between the parties
in terms
whereof it was agreed that each party would have the right of first
refusal
to
look after MJ should the other party be unable to do so for a period
exceeding 2 (two) hours. It is however accepted that this
agreement
was no longer applicable at the time of the respondent's proposal.
[2]
It
was argued by counsel appearing for the respondent that the May 2024
order is effectively a contract between the parties and
that the
respondent's refusal
to
allow the applicant contact in
terms
thereof was justified and permitted as the applicant, by his
conduct, committed a breach of contract which in
turn
entitled the respondent to renege on the terms and conditions
thereof. This approach is not correct.
An
order
made bv agreement between parties
or
which embodies an agreement between the parties, eniovs the status
of a court order.
See
Eke v Parsons
2016 (3) SA 37
{CC) and Compensation Solutions {Pty)
Ltd v Compensation
Commissioner
{2016)
37 ILJ 1625 {SCA).
[3]
Pheko
and
Others v Ekurhuleni
Metropolitan
Municipality
(No
2)
2015
(5) SA 600
(CC)
(Pheko
II)
at
617A
B; Minister
of
Home
Affairs
v
Scalabrini
Centre
2013
(6) SA 421
(SCA)
at
443H-I;
and
NW
Civil Contractors CC v Anton Ramaano Inc
2020 (3) SA 241
(SCA) at
para [6]
[4]
Milton,
South African Criminal Law and Procedure (Vol II: Common Law Crimes)
(3 ed), Juta and Co: 1996 at 165
[5]
[2006] ZASCA 52
;
2006
(4) SA 326
(SCA) at para 9
[6]
Fakie
N.O.
supra
at
para 42
[7]
Tasima
(Pty) Ltd v Department of Transport 2016 1 All SA 465 (SCA)
[8]
Pheko
v Ekurhuleni Metropolitan Municipality supra at para 28
[9]
Matjhabeng
Local
Municipality
v
Eskom
Holdings
Limited
and
Others;
Mkhonto
and
Others
v
Compensation Solutions {Pty) Limited
2018 (1) SA 1
{CC)
[10]
Matjhabeng
Local Municipality
supra
at
para 63
[11]
Matjhabeng
Local Municipality supra at para 63 and 73
[12]
See
Fakie
NO v CCII Systems (Pty) Ltd
supra
at
para 14; Matjhabeng Local Municipality
supra
at
para 67 and 85-88
[13]
Pheko
and Others v Ekurhuleni Metropolitan Municipality City
supra
at
para 37
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